They say there is no place like home, but as my life as an expat evolves I keep asking myself – where is home? expat-life-2Believe it or not, I’ve never been one to be attached to one place, home. At times my mother softly reprimands me asking “don’t you miss home, our apartment?”. The truth is, I don’t. Not in a sense that many people do – missing their house, their bedroom, their pillow. I always craved to fly away, literally and figuratively, somewhere far and new. I guess I was born to be a nomad. My dreams came true in more than one way. Born and raised in Georgia, I became a US citizen yet have been living abroad ever since. You see, that makes me a double expat. Made in Georgia. Processed in the US. Currently based in Japan.

Over the years I’ve come to terms with the notion that it is totally fine to have more than one home, because after all, home is not just a place, it’s a feeling. A feeling of utter comfort and security, happiness and completeness.  These feelings are, more often than not, created by intangible things and the people in my life. IMG_8469My mother. The comfort of coming home after work and having her delicious tolma (version of pigs in a blanket) in a scrumptious creamy sauce and a fresh-from-the-oven khachapuri overflowing with cheese ready and steaming hot on the table. Putting my head in her lap and feeling her hand stroke my hair. My grandfather. Taking me for a ride around the city after we’d both finished work,  our ride inevitably ALWAYS ending up by the farmer’s market where he would pick up (among many other things) the freshest pink and juicy tomatoes the size of his palm, flavorful fruits of the season and cheese. Always the cheese. We both loved soft and creamy sulguni (a Georgian take on mozzarella). My tribe. Because while you’re bound to make new friends everywhere you go, I found that no one else in the world will understand you completely, to the core as much as your people. Your tribe. That sense of belonging is irreplaceable and incomparable, no matter how well you blend in elsewhere. Those lovely conversations about everything and nothing with my closest friends, and laughter and being goofy and making silly memories. Georgians are also one of the most hospitable and tourist-friendly people. People who love to host their guests with lots of food, and even more drinks, as attested by Anthony Bourdain during his recent visit to GeorgiaTsminda Samebaexpat-life-3The beauty of Georgia. Sounds a little exaggerated, I know. From the winding cobbled streets of Old Tbilisi, to the lush pine forests of Borjomi, mighty mountains of Kazbegi, Svaneti or Tusheti, vineyards of Kakheti and the coastline of Adjara, my home-country never ceases to amaze me with its natural beauty. I regret the fact that I never took full advantage to explore it in a proper way. Have you ever put off traveling around your own city/state/country thinking it’s right there and you will have plenty of time to get to it and then time goes and you end up seeing more of abroad? Now traveling around Georgia is on my travel bucket list. Sad, but true. expat-life-4My new home and most importantly my new family in Florida. I miss those nights when everyone is at home (including two 8-year-old labs, one of which still loves to cuddle and sleep ON my father-in-law’s chest), in the sitting room watching a show or American football and making totally unrelated conversations. Admittedly, I also miss my father-in-law’s lobster bisque, shopping in the sprawling American outlets with my mother-in-law and strolls by the ocean side. expat-life-7And despite all this missing, I still feel the happiest wherever I am now, and not because we live in one of the most amazing countries in the world (although that does help), but because that’s where our nest is, the word “our” being instrumental. It’s the place which we are creating together piece by piece. Here, every item tells a story, our story; everything is just ours, exactly the way we like it. It’s a place where we both feel utterly and completely relaxed. Because that’s where I feel the safest and most loved. So to answer my own question: home is wherever I am with him and as long as he is there I’ll know that’s exactly where I am supposed to be. east-kyoto-guide-40

Where is your home? What do you love and miss most about it?

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Linking up with  Angie, Jessi, Emma and Polly for this month’s Travel Link Up!

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Written by Nano @ Travel With Nano B.

Welcome to my site! I'm Nano, a serial expat trotting the globe to discover wonderful places and savor the gastronomic treasures of the world. Via Travel With Nano B. I'm spilling my love for travel and detailing my international culinary adventures one lil' blog post at a time. Currently based in Japan, I'm on a quest to explore this magnificent country and share my unique insight with you all. Worldly adventures, gourmet discoveries, cultural experiences, wanderlust photography, savvy travel tips - find it all on my page. Needless to say, I am thrilled to have you here reading!

26 comments

  1. I can absolutely understand that feeling! While I love my family home in Sydney, where I’m woken up by laughing kookaburras, always have a fridge exploding with fresh food and many fond memories with my parents and family, our little apartment in Tokyo is also just as much my home too. I miss it there dearly when I’m away.

    But at the end of the day as long as you have your partner next to you when you wake up, you know that you’re home :)

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  2. I loved reading this! I’m about to graduate college in December and hope to become an English Teacher abroad in East Asia (I’m aiming for South Korea). I’m from Georgia too, but the state in the USA. ;)
    My dad was in the military when I was a kid so we moved around a lot. I’ve never felt like I’ve had a “home” or hometown because I was always anticipating another big move!
    Wonderful blog posts and the pictures are so pretty :) I’ve never thought to travel to Georgia but you might’ve changed my mind!

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  3. I really liked this post (and great photos too!). You’re so right, it’s all about the people you’re with, especially if you’re making a home with that particular special person who makes anywhere you are together feel like home.

    Sophie :-)

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  4. I loved learning more about Georgia in this post, Nano! It’s lovely that you have so many different “homes”, like me. I agree that home is where you feel safest and most loved – that totally colours the relationship you have with a house or a place or even a city.

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  5. Loved every sentiment in this post Nano – your Mum sounds like a wonderful chef and you know, a couple of years ago, we had been hypothesising a trip to Georgia and you’ve got me thinking it again! I love the way you have found a home and special moments in so many parts of the world and seen the best in all of them. I get the impression that you could find the best of a place no matter where in the world you land up (though the places you have landed up are a bit amazing which helps!!)

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    1. We lived in Haiti before Japan which was not that exciting but it was still very interesting! You should totally go to Georgia! July or September is the best time. When you decide to go I will make sure my friends and family take good care of you and take you around!!! I think you’d lime it there :)

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